DON'T BE DEPENDENT

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DON'T BE DEPENDENT 
As the title of my blog says don’t be depend it means a ton to me, you were born with two feet to stand up right for yourself. You don’t need a helping stick to stand up straight.
During this lifetime you will find tons and tons of people that will be a part of your life for every situation and when the situation is gone, the person also may leave.
To Keep waiting and being dependent on a single person is absolute pure foolishness.
 To grow to achieve something in life you don’t need a support or a person that will always lift you up.
The same person can trash you down when you need that person the most. He/she will not be the same as he/she was in the starting.
Everyone, everything, every situation changes people,change nothing is permanent in life, accept the fact that parents are also not always permanent in life, but the are the best support system you need whenever you are down or emotionally broken.
Letting yourself being a slave or being dependent for a lifetime phase will not help you sweetheart, many other good souls are by your side you just need to open up and see, the good vibes, the good energy is all way your side.
By  being mentally  weaken for him/her wont let you fly high and achieve things, they will be good and support  you in the starting and by there overwhelming nature aka attitude you will have the practice of being pampered and having a support from there side but my dear, not all things last with you always.
In life, everybody I bet everybody faces this situation where they are being emotionally hurt and they lose their self.
They just want to get back to the same person they miss the same person who is hurting you in the present because they are not into the fact that they are the ones who where good in the past.
Being dependent is not a solution dear you were born with 2 feet to stand up without the support of anyone, people will always want to lead you down but dealing with those kinda people and throwing them out of your life is the best way to have peace in your life.
Letting your self free, independent, happy is the key feature to have happiness without that special person in your life.
The true flavours of life are only tasted when you are alone and sad. Then you experience the real flavours the real meaning of life, because that is the real time when you can think and analyse what is going on and what have you been through out.
IF YOU NEED A HAND, YOU WILL FIND IT AT THE END OF YOUR OWN ARM, NOBODY IS PERMANENT AND NOBODY IS VERY MUCH FREE TO LEND THEIR HAND TO YOU FOR LIFETIME.
YOU ARE THE PERFECT SOUL, THE PERFECT PERSON TO GROWN ON YOUR OWN DON’T LET SILLY CIRCUMSTANCES HOLD YOU DOWN.

BY: VIDUSHI SINGH 

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